I guess in the interest of honesty, you could tell him that you’ve just started seing someone else that you’re really interested in and don’t want to waste his time. You could say that you’d feel as if you’re shortchanging him. I do wonder if guys are as easily crushed as we think they are. Probably not.
Have a great day. I love you,
Momma
…this makes me sad. “I wonder if guys are as easily crushed as we think they are”?! No, we don’t put time and energy into relationships at all… *grunts*
December 6, 2008 at 11:09 am
I have raised 2 boys, and I have to say, what the hell are you women thinking. Of course, they hurt, if they are not players.
December 6, 2008 at 8:16 pm
*What the hell are you women thinking?* This is just one letter, from one Mom!!
December 7, 2008 at 9:38 am
You can tell your mom, from a guy that’s been engaged twice, and cheated on both times, yes, we are as easily crushed as you think we are.
December 16, 2008 at 2:10 am
Hi,
I recently met a beautiful Chinese girl of twenty-three in school. We worked on a project together and I totally fell for her. She is so together and beautiful to look at, laughs at my jokes, and is very bright. However, she is in love with someone else, long before I ever knew her name, and yet she did her best to
“Fire-me-down,” as she calls it. Telling me what a nice guy I am and that her lack of intimate interest for me is not negative or as anything against me, but that it was just not meant to be. She was so sweet to even bother explaining, and then she followed up a day later with an e-mail saying that she hopes I am feeling better, but please try to understand and respect her feelings too.
In my opinion, this beautiful Chinese girl, (I am white American) is so sweet and has a lot of class. But now it is up to ME to accept reality and move on. This is something we as men need to understand, as difficult as it is to accept that someone you really like, perhaps even falling in love with, does not feel the same about you, a real relationship must be viewed from BOTH the man and the woman’s perspective. If she does not feel the same as we do, it is much better to find someone that desires us, just as much as we desire them. That is the key to a happy couple.
Good luck guys!
Happy holidays.
Paul
Paul
December 19, 2008 at 8:59 am
What a material of un-ambiguity and preserveness of valuable know-how
about unpredicted emotions.
September 7, 2013 at 12:52 am