OMG…This really could be a win…win situation.  Go and see that house across the street from your sister.  If the downstairs is private enough for you (and me)…I could move into the downstairs and you & family upstairs.  I could give you $50,000.00+ and pay you rent and you could pay me for babysitting…which would probably even out.  I could pay some utilities…we could just work it out!!!  I could even work at Jerimiah’s office…maybe 10-12 hours a week.  It would be much closer to Cary, which is very expensive…and the traffic.  Most IMPORTANT…you, your sister & myself could have cocktails at 5:00 PM every day…WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!