How Mom REALLY Feels About Tattoos

Hi — I’m sorry but I just have to revisit the idea of tattoos because I’m still having nightmares about tattooed bodies. I am having trouble wrapping my head around the fact that you really want to do this. The way I see it, you’re branding yourself as a certain type of person, when in fact you are many more things and will continue to grow in many more ways. This is a permanent statement which unfortunately many people won’t be able to get beyond and will stereotype you before you ever have an opportunity to have them get to know you. I’m not saying it’s fair – the way people think. Or, that it’s their loss for being so narrow minded. It’s also your fault for putting them in that position. Well, maybe you don’t want to associate with those that think that way. HOWEVER, you are shutting out people who may be lovely, too. If I feel it is an uneducated, unsympathetic, hard-core look – and I know you’re not that way, others won’t. Think about the people who you have yet to meet who would love you if they get past the first impression; of prospective employers who may not hire you based on appearance; of people who mistrust your judgment. There are other, unpermanent ways to make statements, with clothing and jewelry and make up – all things which can be changed to suit a mood or situation or opportunity – or even a change of heart! I am a believer in keeping options open. please reconsider.

If the shoe fits…

Mom: I forgot to tell you. I really enjoyed dinner last night.

Me: We had a great time too. John loves listening to you.

Mom: The boy needs to get a life.

Me: Yes we know that, but what makes you say it?

Mom: Your statement – John loves listening to you.

Me: But I love listening to you too, does that mean I need to get a life?

Mom: If the shoe fits

Me: Thanks

Mom: But I love you anyway.



Love, Mom